You Are Always in Control

Dec 10, 2022

The trials and tribulations of the last three years and the effects they’ve had on us personally and on the world around us have been difficult.

Difficult for each of us in different ways.

Maybe so difficult for some, that you’ve adopted difficulty as your new normal.

Just because the outer world is filled with disarray, craziness and chaos, doesn’t mean that our inner world has to follow.


We all live on the exact same planet, going through the exact same economic and worldly crises of war, riots, environmental issues, political disagreements, etc.

We all have our individual trauma, obstacles, and hardships.

But we are ALWAYS in control of which world we will make our reality. We can choose to focus on the negative, and all the bad things happening around us.

Or we can choose to focus on the positive, by doing things that bring us joy, peace, content, and happiness allowing us to create our own world within.

You see, how you feel on the inside directly affects what you see on the outside.

YOU are in control of your reality.

Choose love over hate, courage over fear, trust over worry.

Choose to see the kind, instead of the ugly, listen to your own heart, instead of the crowd/media.

And when you do find yourself in a challenging chapter in your life, instead of throwing in the towel, or drowning in victimhood, look at the situation with new eyes and ask…

“What can I learn from this?" “How can this help prepare me for what’s to come by making me stronger?”

Truth be told, it’s in the darkness where we find our light, in our sorrow where we find our sunshine, and in our breakdown, where we find our breakthrough.

God always has a greater plan.

And that greater plan is always working FOR you.

There are NO accidents, no mistakes, nothing you can screw up, or ruin.

Every set back is just a set up for something better.

You got this.

WE got this. Together.

Be a leader of love and watch love come your way.

Xo, Jess