Love, From the Inside Out

Hi friend,

I hope you’re soaking in a fun summertime weekend.

Has the energy felt fiery to you? 🔥

Leo the Lion season has a way of doing that… igniting courage, stirring boldness, and inviting us to dream with more clarity and heart.

I spent a lot of time with my toes in the sand, reflecting and feeling grateful for where I'm at... and tuning into what's next.

For the past five years, I’ve walked this path mostly alone.

Not because I wanted to be…but because, deep down, I knew something greater was happening.

Still, I’ve had my moments...

Of aching for my person.
Of wondering when I’ll have my family…when I’ll be held how my soul quietly longs for.

I’ve cried. I’ve questioned.
I’ve looked up at the sky more times than I can count and whispered,

“God, why do I have to do this alone?”

But now I see… I was never truly alone.

God was with me the entire time...loving me, strengthening me, raising me up to meet myself.

I see now that what I thought was loneliness… was actually a divine setup.

Because before I can be fully met by another...
I had to be fully met by me.

And it led me to this truth:

God isn’t asking us to be by ourselves—He’s asking us to love ourselves.

To not turn to the outside world for the love we’re missing…
and instead, come back to the Source of love itself.

Because we find ourselves through the Divine...
We are Divine.

And the closer we draw to that Presence, the closer we come to who we really are.

From that place...
it becomes natural to rest our trust in the One who created us…and in the spark of the One that lives within us.

If we ever feel lonely, unloved, or unseen… and find ourselves turning outward, hoping something or someone will fill the gap…

We can pause and ask:

What is it I’m hoping this will give me?
And how can I give it to myself, with Divine love?

Maybe you're longing for someone to tell you they’re proud of you...

Instead, you pause, put your hand on your heart, and let your own voice speak the words you need to hear most.

Every time we do that, we create a miracle.

We return home.
We become more whole.
We become more us.

And this is how we magnetize our hearts desires…
not by chasing… by aligning.

✨ As within, so without. ✨

Every twist, every pause, every “why is this taking so long?” is part of the way forward...even if we don’t understand it yet.

The caterpillar doesn’t know, as it curls into the cocoon, that it will emerge as something entirely new.

Neither do we.

But when we let go…
and trust the process…
that’s when the magic unfolds.

With love always,

Jessica & K.B.B. 🌹